Many years ago when my son was 3, we sat at a loaded Thanksgiving table with many family members. We said a prayer where each of us was asked to say one thing we were thankful for. Everyone said the normal things, family, friends, abundance, jobs, and then came my son’s turn. He brought us all to silence when he said, “Thank you God, for all of us, and thank you God for Jello!” (The silence lasted a moment, then the laughter lasted quite awhile.) I thank God for Jello every year now.
Here are just a few simple ways to keep it simple:
1. Each Holiday lasts only 1 day. Relish the time with your family, eat well, but don’t eat till your belly hurts(!) and then get some physical movement going on. Take the family for a walk, play WII, run around the yard chasing your kids, just do it! Play like you were 8 years old.
2. Holiday parties are to socialize, not to binge eat or binge drink (you really look stupid with a lampshade on your head!) So again, enjoy the people, the conversation, eat wisely and enjoy the party. Dance if it’s the activity of the evening.
3. Holiday Stress is only pressure you put on yourself. So STOP IT. Cut out the 200 person gift giving. That’s superficial anyway. If finances are tight this year as they are for so many families, shop after Christmas – adults don’t really care, and children LOVE gifts in January. Pick only the important people in your life, and give a simple gift of love.
4. If you’re promising yourself a habit change for a New Years Resolution, start now. 5-10 pound of weight loss during the Holidays is easy. And imagine how much you could release in January if you lose 5-10 in December. Or if you’ve decided to quit smoking do it now! It’s not easier in January. It’s easier NOW.
5. Truly be thankful. Look around you and recognize the beauty God gave us and all of the things there are to be thankful for. Simplicity is ok. I AM THANKFUL TO YOU, WHO ARE THERE FOR ME! And I’ thankful for simple things – like Jello.
Happy Thanksgiving to all of you, my friends, family, and friends I hope to know.
Dr. Vicky Thomas




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